i turn you
— on teaching you kindness.
© Liezel Graham 2018.
I am Mum to a boy who is autistic.
Years of struggling with social interaction sees him confused whenever he is rejected by peers, or even adults.
He cannot understand why children reject his attempts at interaction and it is heartbreaking to watch, at times.
I don’t ever want his gentle heart to harden and after a failed attempt at making friends, we always talk it through—we try and figure out whether the other person was perhaps having a bad day, or maybe they didn’t hear him say ‘hello’.
I shower him with praise for trying—trying to reach out when it is easier not to.
I speak kindness over him, so that this will be his default language in spite of how others might treat him.
And perhaps, this is something we should do with ourselves?
Turn ourselves into words—kind, trusting, hopeful, compassionate, empathetic.
So that we can care deeply for our hearts when they are hurting.